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Tama Miller's avatar

Thank you for remembering this exceptional man; yes he was just a man. However, God endowed him with wisdom and insight that few pursue in their lifetime. I have always enjoyed reading his books.

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Phil Dillon's avatar

There is a wealth of wisdom in Lewis’s works. One of my favorites is “A Grief Observed.” I was reading it when my wife and I lived in New Jersey.

I was approaching the big five-oh. One Saturday morning my wife suggested we drive down to Cape May, about 90 miles south of us, for breakfast.

We got to the ocean side bed and breakfast and settled in. I remember looking around and feeling that everyone was “older,” like me actually. I was now part of the senior citizens brigade and I felt a bit uncomfortable.

My wife must have picked up my unease and asked what I felt was a strange question. “So, Slick, what are young going to do with your life if I die before you?”

“I don’t want to talk about this!” I shot back.

“Well I do!” she answered.

It went back and forth until I started to cry. “I don’t want you to ever die...I love you.”

The conversation ended abruptly with her saying, “Well, you idiot. We’ve got three choices - me first, you first, or us together. That’s it. “

I sulked all the way home.

It wasn’t till later that night when I read Lewis’s account of the deep love he had experienced with Joy Davidman, an American writer. He’d met her through correspondence and one thing led to another. She came to England and they got married. She was intellectually and spiritually strong, which is what Lewis needed. She encouraged him with his writing, particularly “The Narnia Chronicles” and he encouraged her in her work on “Smoke on the Mountain,” a scholarly work on the Ten Commandments.

The relationship was far too brief. She died of cancer and left Lewis in a true crisis of faith.

This brings me to the passage I read when I got home. He was lamenting all the things that wouldn’t be the same without her. He wanted her back . so badly he felt he would even be willing to take her from all the joys of heaven to make him happy. It didn’t long for him to see how selfish he’d been and from there he renewed his life.

I read the passage and saw clearly how selfish I’d also been. She was an individual, with a distinct relationship with Jesus. We were in a covenant with each other, but also with Jesus as individuals.

It revolutionized my relationship with Jesus and with her.

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