Every year at this time, we can count on seeing lists of things people are thankful for. I understand the desire to be grateful for all our blessings. There is no doubt about the fact that too many of us take those kinds of things for granted. It is also understandable that the religious origins of Thanksgiving compel us to tie our thankfulness to God. But being grateful seems to come with a parallel assumption that being “blessed” means being healthy, wealthy, and happy. After all, we know that God wants us to have our “best life now.”
When Culture Invades The Church
Being one who has his antennae up to detect cultural assumptions that find their way into the church, it occurred to me that this might be one of them. After all, we are called to have “the mind of Christ.” Everyone agrees on that. But it was Christ who said:
“In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
John 16:33
So, if Jesus promised us we would have trouble …
I’m wondering why we would expect the Christian life to be without it ...
I’m wondering why we think we deserve “our best life now” ...
I’m wondering why we would think the words we speak have the power to make things turn out the way we desire them to be when Jesus never said any such thing ...
Why does our thankfulness always seem to depend on our happiness? And why is it that it is only when we are happy that we attach the heartfelt announcement that “God is so good!” to the thankful lists we make?
What About The Unpleasant Things?
One of the biggest objections to the existence of God is that there is evil and suffering in the world. Critics of Christianity wonder how a good God could allow us to experience these if he claims to love us so much.
It’s a good question. And, to be consistent, we ought to be able to answer it. So, I decided to make a Thanksgiving list of my own:
I’m thankful for the separation from family and friends. It makes me cherish the times we’re together even more ...
I’m thankful for suffering. It challenges those who witness it to show compassion for those who suffer ...
I’m thankful for poverty. It leads us to recognize the emptiness of worldly pleasures and rely on God. And it pleads with us to be charitable to those who are less fortunate than we are ...
I’m thankful for fear. It teaches us courage ...
I’m thankful for unanswered prayer. It teaches us patience ...
I’m thankful for sickness. It exposes us to how dependent we are and to how fragile life is ...
I’m thankful for loneliness. It forces us to realize that we are not the center of the universe ...
I’m thankful for evil. It gives us a way to recognize the perfect goodness of a perfect God ...
Rousing A Deaf World
It’s a weird list. But I made it for a reason. You see, I believe Joni Eareckson Tada who says that the accident that broke her neck and has left her a quadriplegic since she was a teenager, “was the best thing that ever happened to her.”
The suffering she has experienced forced her to question the purpose of her life. And in her search for purpose, she sought and found God.
I believe C. S. Lewis when he says that:
“God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our consciences but shouts in our pains. It is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world.”
I believe that if James, the brother of Jesus can be beaten, taken to the top of the Jerusalem Temple and thrown off, then stoned to death because he survived the fall; that if Peter can endure the sufferings we learn of in his epistles and then die crucified upside down; that if Paul can be beaten, tortured and left for dead in a ditch outside Lystra, then stoned, imprisoned and beheaded on a Roman street, I believe him when he writes that, “we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope ...” (Romans 5:3-4)
The early church spread and grew because it was being persecuted. If suffering was good enough for the apostles, I’m not sure why it isn’t good enough for me.
Preaching What We May Practice
Of course, all of this is easy to say sitting here in my home office in my suburban American neighborhood. But sooner or later I may be forced to practice what it is so very easy for me to preach. I believe these are the kinds of things we ought to be thinking about now. Because when the suffering begins, that is not the time to start wrestling with its purpose. It’s hard to understand why your life is in turmoil when you’re looking at it from inside the storm.
Jesus Christ sweated blood. He was flogged and beaten mercilessly. He was nailed to a cross to hang there until he died. If being sanctified means being made more like Christ, I think we should stop thinking that suffering is not for us. Maybe we should start thinking about what it means to be sanctified.
The Purpose Of Pain
No one likes pain. But we should be contemplating its purpose before we have to experience it. And that means trusting that God created this world to annihilate evil, suffering, and pain forever.
His purpose for this life centers on him, not us.
Getting sanctified means developing eternal virtues like charity, compassion, patience, courage, and humility. Happiness is not on the list of virtues we’re meant to exhibit.
So, I say we start telling the truth. Instead of just expecting the pleasure, let’s start anticipating the pain. And let’s start looking to show more compassion for those who are already experiencing it.
Let’s do so with full knowledge of the reason we are all called to endure it — because it leads to our transformation into someone better than we would have been otherwise.
As a good friend of mine recently pointed out, when you raise your hands in praise and thanksgiving, you form a “greater-than sign” that puts God in his proper place … and you in yours.
Let’s remember that, regardless of our circumstances, we have an eternal purpose that is much bigger than us.
God is good whether we’re doing well at the moment or not.
Let’s raise our hands with gratitude. But let’s be thankful for that too.
Thanks so much for the truths that you put forth in this article. It is comforting to be reminded . I will share this with family and friends at our Thanksgiving dinner.
On a side note I was visiting our mutual friend Ed a couple of weeks ago. His lady friend was also there, we were watching a preacher that I had never heard of . I started to see his message was the health and wealth gospel. He of course presented it in a very emotional way, getting people riled up and ready to dig deep into their pocket books. I pointed out to his lady friend to be cautious about this message. She hadn't been exposed to anything like this. She was curious as I explained to her why I issued this warning to her. I then gave her many of the same reasons you delineated so well in this article. Have a blessed Thanksgiving Bob.
I know this but need to be reminded from time to time. The older I get the clearer this perspective becomes Bob. Thanks for the share